Powerful instruction is not shaming. It shows you what went wrong and specifically instructs you on how to do it right, encouraging you that you can do this. Or it encourages you to find a better way that works for you. Encouraging you to look forward and keep trying. Shaming focuses on […]
Posts with the self esteem tag
Are You Hiding the Real You?
I commonly say that the most insulting thing you could call me is average. We all want to be above average. We love when we see people’s creativity and genius, setting the pace for the rest of us. Many times you’ll hear us saying we wish we had “come up with that” or […]
Don’t Trust, Don’t Tell, Don’t be Vulnerable!
Facebook seems to have taken telling your “dirty laundry” to an all new national sport. We read about people’s lives, we watch their secrets be spread across the news and internet. We even have a new genre of TV shows aimed at this – “Reality TV” with reality TV stars. Funny thing is, […]