Why You Need an “Oscar Winner” Speech Too

  Start by creating a “Thank you list.”  Remember how many people you’ve seen at the Oscar’s/Grammy’s/etc. get up to receive their award and they go blank? Even though they spent all this time working with people to create the movie/album/whatever, when stress levels go up – memories tend to get stuck in the chute. […]

Seriously Selfish People in a Relationship Can Wreck You

What does it feel like being in a relationship with a Narcissist or Seriously Selfish Person (SSP), even the description is intense and painful. It starts out in a whirlwind of fun and excitement till you are hooked emotionally. Then it quickly changes for the dark. It feels: Emotionally wrecking: like being taken blindfolded to […]

Detour? Dragging your feet, avoiding the detour, not moving forward

Yeah, me neither. Except…. Lately, (as in the last few years or decade) I’ve been working toward my goals. A major one was going back to school to become a counselor in order to help others not go through some of the pain I (and my family) have experienced in life from bad decisions, toxic […]