You don’t get gold stars or extra pay for dead (sometimes what you are giving is so over-the-top and ridiculous – it won’t be appreciated, but you will be frustrated). I remember one year I was traveling in the rural mid-west to fill in for another employee who was on maternity leave. […]
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Shame, Blame & Guilt – What’s The Difference?
Shame, Blame, and Guilt. We have all used, abused or been hijacked by these at some time. And they are often used correctly and incorrectly, interchanging them and projecting them on others. Maybe you’ve even been shamed and guilted into blaming yourself for someone else’s feelings or actions. It’s confusing – we blame […]
Be Careful What You Ask For, You Might Get Him
Be careful what you ask for. I wanted a relationship where I could prove how valuable I was as a person by doing things for them. Then maybe I would be good enough. I got a relationship where I only had value according to what I did. And it was […]