Third In A Series: What Life is Like With A Narcissist – Change the Focus from the Narcissist Change the Focus from the Narcissist (Click to read Part 1 and Part 2) Anyone who’s been in a relationship with a Narcissist for any length of time knows that everything focuses on them. […]
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Accepting Imperfection and Failure Will Give You Freedom
Perfectionism leaves no room for exploration, discovery and improvement. If you can’t do it perfectly, or at least exceptionally well, you’re likely not to try at all. If you don’t try something new, you aren’t so likely to fail or do badly. It seems like that would protect you from embarrassment, sadness, […]
What If Powerless Isn’t Really What We’re Afraid Of?
You know we often talk about how we have no control, throw up our hands in defeat, excusing our behavior or lack of it, by our supposed acceptance of our slavery to circumstances and fate. But what if that’s not really what drives our talk, our actions. What if it is really […]