Shame, Blame, and Guilt. We have all used, abused or been hijacked by these at some time. And they are often used correctly and incorrectly, interchanging them and projecting them on others. Maybe you’ve even been shamed and guilted into blaming yourself for someone else’s feelings or actions. It’s confusing – we blame […]
Posts with the narcissist tag
Be Careful What You Ask For, You Might Get Him
Be careful what you ask for. I wanted a relationship where I could prove how valuable I was as a person by doing things for them. Then maybe I would be good enough. I got a relationship where I only had value according to what I did. And it was […]
One Of The Greatest Gifts I Ever Received
One of the greatest gifts I ever received was when I finally realized I was not crazy, narcissists are real, abusive and I knew way too many of them. I had believed everything going wrong in my marriage was my fault. I believed I was an incredible failure as a wife, as a […]