That nagging feeling something’s not right, never good enough.

    That nagging feeling that something’s not right, that you can never be good enough for “him/her,” that feeling that everything is your fault – if you would just be better. And they tell you you’re not quite good enough. But at least he/she doesn’t hit me. But at least she/he is better than […]

Questions – What do you want to know about Narcissists?

    I usually work with people who have been blindsided and sometimes plowed under emotionally by narcissists or narcissistic people in their life. My clients (and others) then usually have a lot of the same questions about narcissists behavior, motivations, reactions and how to deal with the narcissist in their life. Those are the […]

You Have To Be A Doormat To Be With A Narcissist, Right? Maybe Not.

    We all know that there are really selfish, uncaring, disrespectful, manipulative people out there. But we’re sure we’d recognize and avoid them. And they don’t exist in our circles of friends, relatives, acquaintances. Ok, well there is that one guy…. but he’s just a friend of a friend of someone’s cousin twice removed. […]