Remember the old rhyme “sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me”? It was supposed to make us feel better when others were calling us names. What a LIE! If words have no power then why do we use them? In the United States we just celebrated the […]
Posts with the narcissist tag
The Legend of the Missing Apology
I was reading a blog post by a skilled colleague today about when to apologize, why and what a real apology should be (http://www.mathiskennington.com/blog/2015/6/14/the-only-2-reasons-to-say-im-sorry ). It reminded me about one of the huge red flags that we experience when in relationship or even just encountering an N (someone with Narcissistic tendencies or a […]
Would You Like to Live in the House of Mirrors at the Carnival?
Have you ever been to a really good House of Mirrors? You go in, it’s kind of dark, you walk around and see yourself from so many angles and so many versions. You may be looking at one view of yourself but the deeper you look in the mirror, the more versions you see. […]