So if I’m addicted to being needed, how do I stop? If that is how I fill my life, how I feel good about myself, what happens if I just suddenly stop? If that is my way of helping others, where is the line? Do I have to change what makes me me? […]
Posts with the compassion tag
Shame, Blame & Guilt – What’s The Difference?
Shame, Blame, and Guilt. We have all used, abused or been hijacked by these at some time. And they are often used correctly and incorrectly, interchanging them and projecting them on others. Maybe you’ve even been shamed and guilted into blaming yourself for someone else’s feelings or actions. It’s confusing – we blame […]
Are Emotional Abusers Hiding In Your Church?
Are emotional and/or physical abusers hiding in your church? Is someone you know misusing scripture to dominate or control others who want to please God? Are you locked into an abusive relationship using only part of the Bible’s discussion of marriage and how to treat others? Does it feel like the abuser […]