Remember as a kid when you kept thinking “I can’t wait till I grow up and I can do anything I want!” We believed we wouldn’t have to get permission anymore from somebody else to do the things we wanted. We wouldn’t need permission from someone else to act the way we wanted, […]
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How To Move Forward! Simple, Not Easy. You Can Do It!
Grieve. Share your story with someone worthy of hearing it. Be compassionate to yourself. Know that you couldn’t know what you didn’t know, till you knew it. Learn to say no. Learn to build healthy boundaries. Learn the difference between helping, rescuing and enmeshing. Start implementing that knowledge to Not rescue. […]
If They’re The Problem, Why Do I Need To Change?
Short answer? Because you’re the one that wants a better life. If you’re dealing with someone who has strong narcissistic traits, is extremely selfish and/or entitled, who has little empathy for you, they aren’t interested in changing. They don’t believe they have a problem, they believe you are the problem. They will […]