So if I’m addicted to being needed, how do I stop? If that is how I fill my life, how I feel good about myself, what happens if I just suddenly stop? If that is my way of helping others, where is the line? Do I have to change what makes me me? […]
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Feeling Pressured? You Don’t Get Paid Extra For Dead!
You don’t get gold stars or extra pay for dead (sometimes what you are giving is so over-the-top and ridiculous – it won’t be appreciated, but you will be frustrated). I remember one year I was traveling in the rural mid-west to fill in for another employee who was on maternity leave. […]
Be Careful What You Ask For, You Might Get Him
Be careful what you ask for. I wanted a relationship where I could prove how valuable I was as a person by doing things for them. Then maybe I would be good enough. I got a relationship where I only had value according to what I did. And it was […]