Powerful instruction is not shaming. It shows you what went wrong and specifically instructs you on how to do it right, encouraging you that you can do this. Or it encourages you to find a better way that works for you. Encouraging you to look forward and keep trying. Shaming focuses on […]
Posts with the acceptance tag
When Familiar Isn’t Where You Want to Be
Sometimes we are so used to doing things a certain way, or making a recipe a certain way, or thinking about something a certain way, or even spending time with people who act a certain way, that we begin to think that is the only way. We may even come to decide that is […]
Are You Hiding the Real You?
I commonly say that the most insulting thing you could call me is average. We all want to be above average. We love when we see people’s creativity and genius, setting the pace for the rest of us. Many times you’ll hear us saying we wish we had “come up with that” or […]