Relationships with Narcissists – like solving a Rubik’s cube. Blindfolded!

    If only I figure out the right combination – everything will be fine. I can finally make them happy. Do you feel like this? That surely the person in your life who is causing you pain will become caring and considerate. If only you figure out the right combination of actions and words […]

Sticks & Stones May Break My Bones, And Names Will Really Hurt Me!

    Abuse is certainly not new nor evolving but our recognition of what abuse is, hopefully is improving. Many years ago it was considered acceptable to hit women, children and pets. It took a long time to get to the point where we as a society realized that we needed to stop the physical […]

Overcomers, Not Anonymous – Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

    This week was the first time I ever identified myself as a Domestic Violence Survivor. I re-posted a pic on Facebook, regarding Domestic Violence Awareness. I was surprised at how difficult that was for me to say.   I was surprised at how much I wondered what others would think of me, since […]