No. Full sentence. Doesn’t require explanation. Doesn’t require an excuse. If you can’t say no, then you really don’t have the power of choice. You have an illusion of free will. To have room for the Yes you want, use the No you own. Loud or quiet. […]
What If Powerless Isn’t Really What We’re Afraid Of?
You know we often talk about how we have no control, throw up our hands in defeat, excusing our behavior or lack of it, by our supposed acceptance of our slavery to circumstances and fate. But what if that’s not really what drives our talk, our actions. What if it is really […]
You Know What You Need To Do – Doesn’t Mean You’ll Do It
The difference between knowing what’s good for you and actually doing it is life-changing. Sort of like the difference between knowing taking the birth control pills in your purse works and actually taking them. Or the difference between health choices we know we should enact but don’t follow through on. Like stopping […]