Perfectionism leaves no room for exploration, discovery and improvement. If you can’t do it perfectly, or at least exceptionally well, you’re likely not to try at all. If you don’t try something new, you aren’t so likely to fail or do badly. It seems like that would protect you from embarrassment, sadness, […]
Second Guessing Yourself? Are You Stuck Making Decisions?
Ever have an image of yourself that is really not you? In your mind, you think you are the epitome of some supposed negative trait, so you are always doing the opposite, trying to avoid being that thing. For example, I tend to, for whatever reason, think that other people think I’m […]
Housekeeping, Furniture Rearranging, Changes In Posting
Ever so often we have lots of changes at the same time in our lives, sort of a housekeeping, furniture rearranging. Right now is one of those times for me. My “To Do” list is spread across many post-its, in an effort to keep updating them and bring some kind of categorization. Plus, […]