I was reading a blog post by a skilled colleague today about when to apologize, why and what a real apology should be (http://www.mathiskennington.com/blog/2015/6/14/the-only-2-reasons-to-say-im-sorry ). It reminded me about one of the huge red flags that we experience when in relationship or even just encountering an N (someone with Narcissistic tendencies or a […]
Posts with the vulnerable tag
Would You Like to Live in the House of Mirrors at the Carnival?
Have you ever been to a really good House of Mirrors? You go in, it’s kind of dark, you walk around and see yourself from so many angles and so many versions. You may be looking at one view of yourself but the deeper you look in the mirror, the more versions you see. […]
Don’t Trust, Don’t Tell, Don’t be Vulnerable!
Facebook seems to have taken telling your “dirty laundry” to an all new national sport. We read about people’s lives, we watch their secrets be spread across the news and internet. We even have a new genre of TV shows aimed at this – “Reality TV” with reality TV stars. Funny thing is, […]