Do you have people in your life that make you wonder how they can be so selfish? Maybe you are repeatedly amazed at how they can so easily ignore your feelings, treating you as if you don’t matter. Or do they flip-flop between charismatic charmer and cold as ice. Or hair-trigger angry rage over insignificant […]
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How dare you give me roses! Pt 3 of 3
And suddenly back to today, I realized this was a healthy response. My anger was a symptom of healing. It was a symbol of not being able to be bought or pretending that everything was okay anymore. It was a refusal to let one small action make up for everyday emotional abuse. It was a […]
How dare you give me roses! Pt 2 of 3
As I look back now, I can see the pattern. He made it perfectly clear that he was not going to invest himself in putting thought and effort into how he treated me (or generally, the kids). If he had always been careless about gift giving or just was really bad at picking out gifts […]