Why Do We Reward Those Who Hurt Us? Beware! Pigs Bite – Do Not Feed! Ever find yourself focusing on how to make others like you, appease that grumpy coworker, or agreeing with the aggressively manipulative person in your group? Ever wonder why? Ever find yourself frustrated and angry about why you […]
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Be Careful What You Ask For, You Might Get Him
Be careful what you ask for. I wanted a relationship where I could prove how valuable I was as a person by doing things for them. Then maybe I would be good enough. I got a relationship where I only had value according to what I did. And it was […]
Feel like there is a string attached to the gift?
Have you had people in your life who seem to keep score constantly of anything they do for you? It seems like they keep an account book giving themselves credit for any action they deem to be positive. And a list of all the negative things you have done. They tend to […]