We hear so much about addictions today and programs to help people stop doing drugs, drinking alcohol, control their shopping or pornography binges. There are even programs to help those who are in close relationship with someone who is addicted to alcohol. What if your addiction is to being needed? You can […]
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Codependents & Narcissists – Match Made In Hell Or It Feels Like It
I grew up in a family where nearly everyone was either Codependent or a Narcissist. Generation after generation. But we didn’t know that. In fact the term, codependent didn’t even come into use until the 1970’s. We’ve been perfecting that role at least back to the 1800’s. That was normal for us, […]
Are you too nice? Is it possible? Take the Quiz
Do you sometimes wonder if you are, or do others tell you that you are, “too nice?” Does it feel like you aren’t good enough unless you are doing something for someone? Does it feel like your desires and preferences take last place to everyone else? Does it seem like the nicer you are […]