Make this the year you choose to empower yourself by being your own valentine.
That means choosing you! Choosing you to be cherished, respected, valued.That means treating yourself the way you want to be treated. Maybe that means getting that cupcake, special candy, box of chocolates, flowers, dinner – for you. You get to choose!
Maybe that means opening a bottle of bubbly – for YOU! (Champagne, Pop/Soda, Sparkling Water – Your choice).
Maybe it means going out with friends, or renting a movie, or doing something nice for someone less fortunate.
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It does NOT mean you spend the day harassing yourself about your tax filing status (single, filing together, etc.) or the number of cars parked at your home.
It does mean that you name all the things you’re grateful for and what you love/are proud of/makes you laugh about you!
It does mean you come up with 25 NICE things to say about you. It does mean you recognize you are a whole person; not a half wandering around, trying to find their way.
Don’t make February 14th any more critical than March 11th or May 16th or…. And if you’re critical of you on all of those other days too, well you need to start reading some more of the postings written here about “being enough.”
So give yourself a hug and a pampering attitude this year. Hmmmm, I can’t wait to see what I get me this year!
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