Powerful instruction is not shaming. It shows you what went wrong and specifically instructs you on how to do it right, encouraging you that you can do this. Or it encourages you to find a better way that works for you. Encouraging you to look forward and keep trying. Shaming focuses on […]
Author: Jan
Words Have Power: To Give You Hope or Shame
Remember the old rhyme “sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me”? It was supposed to make us feel better when others were calling us names. What a LIE! If words have no power then why do we use them? In the United States we just celebrated the […]
Becoming a Reframe Artist – Gaining a New Perspective
Ever check yelp or ask people about a new restaurant you’d like to try and get a multitude of answers from “love it” to “don’t ever eat there”? Ever wonder how there can be so many different answers? Ever think you know about someone, then you hear a different story that entirely changes […]