Life and relationships are like hanging on the monkey bars, also know as the jungle gym (name seems appropriate). If you’re not moving, you’re losing the momentum to keep moving. The longer you stop, the harder it is to get moving again. And the scarier. But not impossible. And sometimes you fall. It’s okay […]
Author: Jan
Why It’s So Hard To Leave An Emotional Abuser
Sometimes it’s easier to take the blame and shame than accept the disappointing truth about our loved one. Why is it so hard to quit allowing a parent or partner to keep hurting us emotionally? You would think we would get so tired of getting the same treatment (bad with a side of […]
Relationships with Narcissists – like solving a Rubik’s cube. Blindfolded!
If only I figure out the right combination – everything will be fine. I can finally make them happy. Do you feel like this? That surely the person in your life who is causing you pain will become caring and considerate. If only you figure out the right combination of actions and words […]