You don’t get gold stars or extra pay for dead (sometimes what you are giving is so over-the-top and ridiculous – it won’t be appreciated, but you will be frustrated). I remember one year I was traveling in the rural mid-west to fill in for another employee who was on maternity leave. […]
Posts from March 2016
The Always Smiling Woman Has An Easy Life, Right? Truth Is …
Everyone thinks that the woman who’s always smiling has a charmed life. Truth is … What’s behind the smile? A well-oiled machine, used to the great life, perfect family, loving husband, fabulous job, great health. Oh yeah! Maybe not. People think that the one smiling and laughing, the good listener and […]
Shame, Blame & Guilt – What’s The Difference?
Shame, Blame, and Guilt. We have all used, abused or been hijacked by these at some time. And they are often used correctly and incorrectly, interchanging them and projecting them on others. Maybe you’ve even been shamed and guilted into blaming yourself for someone else’s feelings or actions. It’s confusing – we blame […]